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THE ROLE OF MOTHERS TO CREATE A NEW GENERATION OF MEN.

It has been a trending topic and a thing of concern about the roles men play in the family. I believe the society and the parents have the biggest influence on men.
Everybody is expecting a miracle from them, when individually same people train up their boys to grow up into the same personality of men they are complaining about. You see some percentage of women still do not allow the boys do chores at home, and you expect them to grow up and change automatically. We need to create the change we desire, not just for us,but for generations to come. We want our daughter to be in a better place than we were and to be loved more.  We need to train up our boys to be loving and understand that it does not make you any less of a man when you help our in kitchen, do dishes, clean the house, do laundry, take out the trash, pick up the clothes lying around the house, rather it makes you a better person. they need to understand that their are no specific chores assigned to a specific gender or group of people. Help out in any way you can. 
                        Then let us talk about the part where people assume that fathers who drop their kids off to school, go to games, school play and meetings, pick them up from school, take them shopping, are jobless or unemployed, that is very wrong on every side, believe me, they read the body language, gesture, and expression on people's face. That reduces the excitement to do all that when you try to reduce their self worth by making such assumptions. We need to encourage them, quit the side gossips, and see the the greater part of what they are doing.

For the men , we know it takes love, commitment, self discipline to take part in all these activities, irrespective of the society, culture and background, but i appreciate the fine men that still do all that work for their family. I want to encourage all the men out there to try to work around their busy days to help with family activities. Please do not  just sit and watch TV and games at home and order people to supply you goodies and clean up after your done, hangout , sleep and all that. get involved in the activities at home with your wife and kids, in school. you would feel great doing that and your setting a stepping stone for the young ones to be the best men when they grow and take good care of your daughter.

Ladies encourage them to do, its one step at a time, they will get there and we should train our young boys to be better men.


Drop your comment and lets know what  your view or take is.

STAY SAFE AND HAPPY WEEKEND.

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  1. Welcome on board, we hope it inspires people all over "To create the change we desire"

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