So I have been in this relationship for 4 years now, at the very beginning everything was great, we spent time together, at the movies, date nights, concerts, traveled for holidays, we had weekend getaways, shared gifts on birthdays and holidays. It was just what I have always dreamed of until now. It all started after he got a new job early this year, everything started drifting away, the calls, the text, we went out probably once a month. I became concerned about the whole situation, I tried to have a decent conversation to get answers to the million questions popping up on my head, but all he had to say was am sorry, its just work and all the stress. We agreed to make out more time for us, to work on our relationship and see a counselor if possible. The Truth is nothing has changed, he never made it for the meetings with the counselor, he had assignment to take care of and all that silly excuses. Right now am at crossroads, should I leave and move on with my life or just keep trying to work things out, maybe one day he will come around and things will be back to normal. Am just so confused, I just wish things could be back to normal and our love becomes stronger. I don't want to throw away 5 years of my life, our love and the memories we created and shared together, I want to make it work, I want to give it my all and hope he realizes that his work should not be an excuse to loose what we have built all this years. I still love him very much, I don't know really, am I in love or just scared of being single or start dating all over again? I don't know!
REPLY FROM LA WONDER WOMEN.
Wow, it's great to know you are putting so much effort to make it work, we understand what you are going through, we recommend you follow your heart, whatever you think is best for you. If you still want to work things out with him, give him more time, 5 years is not 5 days, but everything comes down to what you want as a person. Sit down and try to get an answer from him, if it is still not working out, their is no need wasting time if he is not willing to change, it takes 2 to work out a relationship, It is not one sided. It takes communication and respect for one another to build a strong relationship and if that is lacking, it will get tougher down the line. It is not easy, but it is entirely up to you as person, to decide what is best for you. We hope he realizes what he has, and work things out with you before its too late. We wish you all the best girl.
A beautiful story from unanimous from Florida.
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